Friday, August 13, 2010

been a while that i .........................

been a while since I last update this blog of mine.even myself also find it to be dead…. Maybe I had declared it to be dead…always ask my friends to update theirs but I myself was just too lazy to do so
was writing in mandarin in the first place but find it just too slow to type out….so I deleted those few sentence and jump to this straight.
life had been changed
so much that I haven got the time to really sit down and ponder about it
much thought had been given to it
decision had been made to it
life is changed
at least for the better I suppose
my wife is now staying with me
finally……..
things got interesting
when 2 are not staying together….. We were living on the phone
but now we are living next to each other
funny as it seems but it has been a blessing
she is sweet in her own way
well as I already know even before I propose to her
I know she is unique in her own way too
but I guess that's marriage life
when 2 people that came from 2 walks of life
the way we live,eat,drink,sleep and so on would be so diff
but of coz I finally understand the famous phrase in manadrin
behind every successful man, there must be a great woman behind him
who will provide supports be it financially,mentally or purely words of encouragement
I am lucky in the sense, my dear wife will pack my an apple every morning
I am lucky in the sense, my dear wife will support me when I am diagnosed with liver problems
I am lucky in the sense, my dear wife will support me when I decided to embark on a new venture in business
I am lucky in everyway I see it as my wife does it
now talking about my life changing process
I am now a married man
I am now a driving man
I am now a happy and blessed man
I am now a salesman
I sell property
I provide shelter to the needy
I need to work hard for my clients
I must be professional
I must work with integrity
I must not be greedy
I must not throw temper like I used to
I must learn to control
I need to be more independent
I must be discipline
I want to be the top 10%
I must stay in the top 10%
I will work hard for my loved ones
I work hard for my job satisfaction
I work hard to gain respect
these are some of the littles things running in my head
I had yet to tidy them up
I will be joining the most challenging industry
there would be no fixed income anymore
I will need to earn my own salary
this is like a own business to myself
when I first tot of doin - sales
as general, I just want to be out there doin something else
I used to have a plan
it last from 1998 to 2008
then what I tot is my dream carreer somehow backfire me
I realised that I am not fit to be in here
I should be out there
doin whatever that could show my skills
so I compare and talk to many people
I am glad that I received the best positive response from my wife
the trust she affirmed me,just made my day shines
of coz…. There are supports from family and relatives
people cautions me that it is not an easy job
u will not get what u are earning now
they are a lot of ppl tried and failed miserably
then they all went back to where they left from
actually for me, I just wanna prove to myself
I can do it
I know it is gonna be very hard, super tough
amazingly crazy
but at least I try
I dun wan to look back 10 yrs later and think to myself that
only if I had tried
it would be diff
now that I am without too much of commitment
I can focus and try and do it
I will give myself 3 yr to established
within 2 mth to break the egg
one yr to the next promotion
and I mean to make it to 80k com
I wan to hit 90% com in less than 1 yr time
I know I need to deploy a lot of strategies
for the past 1 week plus
I had started attendiing class
met these super agent, each unique in their own ways
but one thing I realised and find in common
they all do down to earth stuff, that includes door to door
canvassing…. Which u need to visit a specific area and do mass promotion
along in the class…. I find myself facing a lot of difficulties
the person I hated the most is in the class
the person so haolian is in the class
but of coz I also blessed to meet a few kind fellows
I find that I tend to categorised myself and restrict myself to a specific group of people
I find myself also quite haolian
so there is something that is wrong with me.
I need to correct myself
I need to change

Thursday, December 17, 2009

我要结婚咯!!!

结婚咯!!!
人的一生….最期待的一个大日子
这几个月来….
从戒指的挑选
一开始,一窍不通
慢慢的…学会了很多
也因为懂了才麻烦….
因为我是一个完美主义者
当然希望我的老婆能拥有最好的
所以,从4C….carat,colour,cut,clarity
开始懂了
走了很多的店
做了很多的比较
终于,下定决心
一掷千金…
除了费心去寻找这颗钻石
还有最重要的
就是当天的流程
比如说要在那里
吃什么,
为什么要拍video
后来还要要给她的感动
当然还要花…..
这些东西
看起来好象很简单
不过,其实都需要很多的准备
很多的计划
也得到很多的帮忙

可是当天所有发生的
都跟我所想象的有别
气氛并没有
对了, 我忘了换灯…..
哎呀….
怪不得,总觉得怪怪的
饭菜煮的还可以
只是白饭太湿了
歌- 唱了….
傻傻的她还没查觉
歌词已改了
后来的魔术... 一切太匆忙
所以, 当戒指变出来的时候
就好象却少了惊喜

幸好, 我有准备
我将之前所拍的video
经过我细心的剪辑,配乐
总算,能感动到她
在这些录影里,有我和她的家人
简单的确10分钟
让她感动也让她笑到不行…

Thursday, November 19, 2009

WE THEY US

this is a new trial of picasa, am glad to finally get to collate our photo. however, coz i have very limited photo in my laptop at office, i could only come out with this.... been 8 mths we are an item, tho it was not a long time , it had been the happiest time of my life. i wanna make it a life long commitment. i am gonna love u for life. really hope that u will get to come to S to work ASAP.... miss u always...
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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Love life = Product life cycle

In life, we have to make choices. whether we like it or not. Gf is some raw material that we had selected to put them into the production in hope that they will go through the WIP process smoothly and in the end turn out and pass the QC test to be the end product which we call wife.

However, as the usual production goes, not all raw mat are made of good quality and sometimes it is just the luck of the raw mat. it might not carry the right composition of the required standard to go thru those test or production process and sometimes, it is not the problem of the raw mat but the production machine. there are just too many unpredictable in manufacturing as u are very well understood.

If that piece of raw mat was not meant to be the end product, what do u do in the production?

1st, try to recycle, if it works then, it will still pass out as an end product? = wife

2nd, try to rework... sometimes, the by product from one production cycle can be of very good used to another i.e. wife too but not urs

3rd, scrap as we all know. u tried ur best don't force urself , but too bad, that's life! face it.........

4th, remember this is a cycle? the first batch that went into the production which turn out bad doesn't mean u need to shut down ur factory, source for better quality supplier, u need to try out to find out... like what we always do for the ISO certified company..... 3 vendors and pick the best....

Bro, the choice is urs, life is supposed to be lived to the fullest but not stuffed to the fullest be it worries and hatreds

Thursday, August 27, 2009

最近, 忙了一点

最近, 忙了一点
今天,总算静下来
我的脑袋一直在想
想着很多很多的事
感情还算可以
我们没有什么时间可以在一起
一旦在一起就会把整个世界暂时抛开

我的她
是一个很能干的人
所以很多时候,时间都给工作给占据
就连我们去旅行的时候
她还得工作
我并不怪她
话虽如此
心里难免还是不舒服

可是,那天慧说
她虽得工作,却并非她意
况且,她还得兼顾陪我的责任
我突然醒悟,我怎么那么笨

我的她
是很疼我的人
每每我有什么问题
就算她不知道怎样去帮我
她们还是回尽力去安慰我
跟她在一起
我觉得我真的好幸福

昨天,把剩下的最后几辑"唐心风暴"一口起看完
当我抬头一看已经是凌晨4 am
说到这出戏,里头有很多的大道理

1.有口也是和,無口也是禾,大家要和和氣氣
一头家,需要的是一个诚字
不骗,不偷,不抢
很多人在看戏的时候
应该不会象我这么投入
而且有时我还真的太入戏
家对一班人来说是幸福的
不过,当然也会有一些人是完全不想回家的
我很庆幸自己的家还可以.
虽然免不了要面对现实生活里的苦与乐
但是过去的事就让它过去吧

2. 耳聽三分假,眼看未為真
一对夫妻也好,情侣也好
当你听到了你的她的闲言碎语
你的心里想的是什么呢
或是看到你不希望看到她所做的一些事
你又会做出什么来呢

我们的生活里有很多东西,
有的更重要的 往往我们都会得过且过
当你想好好的珍惜的时候已经太迟了

你的生活是怎样的呢?

其实我很好奇,到底要谁在看我的部落格.....
请大家告诉我好吗?

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

最近

好忙,好忙…
也好久好久没有时间静下来
最近, 想了很多的东西
也发生了很多事情
要从那里说起呢
工作吧!
很"显"
为什么??? 因为种种的不爽.
老板总是 不能配合.
她又只会指指点点.
东挑西嫌
要不然就是说" 不明白"
每一次更你解释,你就皱眉头
我的解释真的有这么差吗?
算了拉
………..嗨
还是不要再提工作
说说理想
原本想有机会能当一名摄影师
那该多好
可是, 最近的摄影经验,
让我对于当一名专业的摄影师却步
累不过是借口
要更别人一起争角度
好吃力
技不如人, 也很痛苦
总之…种种迹象表明,
我, 还不够经验
还有很多要学的
OK OK… 本来要很开心爱来分享的
却变成….. OKOK
ANDREW 最近提到开CAFÉ/PUB
其实, 还满向往的
一直以来,就很希望能够拥有自己的CAFÉ
再加上, 喜欢吃的我
哈哈… 真的觉得这个意见太妙了
不过还有很多要想的
纵然面对生活的挑战
很庆幸B的支持和鼓励
在茫茫人海,有一个你
常常在我最沮丧的时候
倾听我的怨言
谢谢你

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

结婚…

KELVIN 昨天打电话来提醒…
这个周末就是他的大喜之日…
很开心,因为能被委任为他的摄影师
为了要有好的作品
我从ANT & EVY 的WEB 有一再的细细观察
自从ALVIN 的婚礼之后,一直很想再跟ANT学习
很欣赏ANT的角度
他在拿捏与构图之间…
太棒了
与此同时,在看了这么多的婚礼相片,
让我也好期盼自己这一天的到来
相识,相知,相恋到结婚
是件很开心的事
能一起走到最后
更是难能可贵的
毕生中有多少人..
从拥有所有的幸福到什么都失去…
是不懂得珍惜…
是经不起考验
是缘分已尽
人生 - 耐人寻味
接下来这几天,会在多计划
希望能有好的作品送给KELV